Friday, June 30, 2006

Love is Never Having To Say "Pass the Remote"

A guy knows he's in love when he loses interest in his car for a couple of days.

[Tim Allen -RD]

The reason we say "fell in love" is that it makes it sound more like an accident. Men act like, "I was walking along and fell in love. I tried to get my boys to pull me out, but I got all tangled in ropes and sticks, and I couldn't break free."

[Chris Rock -RD]
A friend is like an angel sent by God. They shelter us from hurt and pain. They comfort us through good and bad times and most of all they treasure us with love.

The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that you pass this way only once.

A smile makes you look younger while prayers make us stronger. and friends? They make us enjoy life forever.

Happiness is like perfume, you can't pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.

Friendship is not about becoming someone else's "perfect friend", it's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
Love Quote: "Love comes from the heart , but true love comes from the mind and soul." Love is felt from all facets, not from the heart. It blossoms.
Love Quote: "A loving kiss will show the peace." Love can calm arguments and heal fractious atmospheres. Love leads us to where we can be pure once more.
Friends are the best interpreters coz even in silence, even when nothing is said and even if they don't know what has happened.. they don't ask you questions, they just understand.

When you feel down becuase you didn't get what you wanted, just sit tight and be happy becuase God's thinking of something better for you.

When good friends find themselves apart, they still are close, at least in heart. They think about each other still, because they care and always will.

--> When one door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. [Helen Keller]

Friendship is like a big, warm hug on a really bad day! It just erases all the frustration and pain away, leaving only the feeling that you are safe and loved!
God works in mysterious ways. He sometimes puts us in the dark so we may see His light.

--> Friendship is a special kind of love, more than endless, more than true. So if friends parted ways, no matter what the distance, expect them to keep coming back to you.

God's purpose and design is behind every event. At times, what we consider to be disaster is simply the hand of God rearranging and trimming our lives.

Special friends see heart-to-heart even when they don't see eye-to-eye.

When you're alone, the Spirit of God guides us. When we're afraid, the prescence of God comforts us. and when we're weak, the hand of God upholds us.
Love Quote: "When you have nothing left but love, then for the first time you become aware that love is enough." Love reminds us what life is all about.

Wednesday, June 28, 2006

3 things in life when gone never comes back: TIME, WORDS & OPPORTUNITY

3 things in life that are never lost: PEACE, HOPE & HONESTY

3 things in life that are valuable: LOVE, FAITH & PRAYER

3 things in life that are never certain: DREAMS, SUCCESS & FORTUNE

3 things in life that make a man: WORK, SINCERITY & COMMITMENT

3 things in life that can destroy a woman: LUST, PRIDE & ANGER

3 things that are truly constant: FATHER, SON & HOLY SPIRIT

Please don't just read, reflect on it & share.

Love&Rel 101

There's always a possibility that a person can get attracted to another. It's human nature. It's not wrong. But that's why you're in a commitment, you DISCIPLINE yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and it's okay. As long as you don't nurse the feeling and won't do something about it. Borderline between cheating and faithfulness. Recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you get for the cheap thrills of attraction.


I did not know I loved you until I heard myself telling so, for one instance
I thought, "Good God, what have I said?" and then I knew it was true.

-Bertrand Russell
Love Quote: "Love is like a sweet flower; true love is a sweet rose." We know the difference between love and true love - one is delicate and much more beautiful!
A smile is a language everybody understands. It costs nothing but creates much. It happens fast but its memory may last forever.

"Life must be lived with love and humor: love to understand it and humor to put up with it."

Always be happy, always wear a smile; not because life is full of reasons to smile but because your smile itself is a reason for many others to smile.
Love Quote: "When you love, you wish to do for, you wish to sacrifice for, you wish to serve." Love is about receiving. You are spurned to give your best.

I Love Him

I love him, I dream of him,
I sing of him by day;
And all the night I hear him talk,--
And yet he's far away.

There's beauty in the morning,
There's sweetness in the May,
There's music in the running stream;
And yet he's far away.

I love him, I trust in him;
He trustesth me always:
And so the time flies hopefully,
Although he's far away.

-Barry Cornwall
Whether you've been through your worst time or it is yet to come, always remember that Life can be summed up to 3 words: 'it goes on.'

Be happy with what you have while working for what you want. Remember that a successful future, with the right attitude begins now.

The happiest person doesn't have the best of everything in life, perhaps they're just good in making the best of everything that life brings along their way.

The Heart

The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of.

Sweet words are easy to say,

sweet things are easy to buy,

but sweet people are difficult to find,

life ends when you stop dreaming,

hope ends when you stop believing,

love ends when you stop caring,

friendship ends when you stop sharing.

So share this with whom ever you consider a friend...

To love without condition...

To talk without intention...

To give without reason...

& To care without expectation...
Love Quote: "Love is the most beautiful of dreams and the worst of nightmares." Love cannot be mediocre or average. It is what it is, beautiful or desolate.
Love isn't when you can't sleep, it's when you want to keep your eyes open.

Love isn't when you keep holding on, it's when you learn to let go.

Love isn't when you kill yourself with jealousy, it's when you understand.

Love isn't when you fall for someone, it's when you catch that person when he/she falls.

Love isn't when you see him/her everywhere, it's when you close your eyes and he's/she's still there.

Love isn't when you tell him/her what you feel, it's when you give up evreything for his/her sake.

And love isn't when you think you were blind, it's when you know that you were wrong but you didn't mind.
Let love be stronger than your hate and anger. Learn the wisdom of compromise for it is better to bend a little than to break.

Destiny decides who you meet in life, but it's only your heart that can decide who gets to stay in your life.

The beauty of life does not depend as to how happy you are, but as to how happy others can be because of you.
Love Quote: "Love is like wildflowers; It's often found in the most unlikely places." We shouldn't be surprised when we find love. It is truly a gift.
Love Quote: "Love is a miracle that only you can see." Love gives us second-sight, so to speak. We can see the womderful miracle of love in ourselves.
Life is a one-way street, no matter how many detours you take, none of them leads back. So enjoy life's every moment as some of them will never happen the same way again.

Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want. It's the realization of how much you already have.

No one can go back and make a new beginning but anyone can start from now and make a happy ending.

Saturday, June 24, 2006

Age appears to be the best in some things.

Old wood, best to burn.

Old authors, best to read.

Old wine, best to drink.

Old friends, best to have.
Life is not a puzzle to be solved.

Life is not a question to be answered.

Life is not a task to be completed but..

Life is an event to be celebrated in God's prescence.

How to Fall in Love:

1. Fall, but don't stumble.

2. Be consistent, not persistent.

3. Understand, but not demand.

4. Share, but never be unfair.

5. Hurt, but never keep the pain.

Always remember this:

Life is..

never without a need,

never without a problem,

never without difficulty,

never without hurtful moments,

and never without God to help us.
The secret of life is wisdom.

The secret of happiness is in giving.

The secret of love is in sacrifice.

The secret of friendship is concern.
Love is a risk.

Sometimes you win,

sometimes you lose,

whether it's pain or joy,

whether right or wrong,

love doesn't have room for mistakes,

only lessons.

Thursday, June 22, 2006

Love Quote: "I love, therefore I am." Love is the very definition of all our natures. To go against nature, then, is to go against love itself.
Love Quote: "Love is seeing the one who gives you sight." Love opens our eyes in beautiful ways. It gives us the miracle of the heavens above.

Sunday, June 11, 2006

have ya?

Have you ever noticed... that the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you can never have them?

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most; saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing and wishing you had?

I guess the most important things are the hardest to say.

Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?

Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?

Have you ever loved someone and they had absolutely no idea whatsoever?

Or fell for your best friend in the entire world, and then sat around and watched him/her fall for someone else?

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?

Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have had.

No one waits forever.
Loving a person doesn't need a criteria; kasi once you fall in love, you take the risk of accepting the person. You don't need to find answers kung bakit mo siya mahal. Kasi lahat nagbabago; but if you accept that person, magbago man siya in the middle of the relationship, hindi ka masasaktan kasi tanggap mo siya ng buo. Mahirap gawin pero masarap subukan dahil wala ng sasaya pa if you let that one person feel na mahal na mahal mo siya without asking for anything in return. Then you can say, "Hay... Thanks God for the gift of Love..."

I Dreamed

I dreamed I held
A sword against my flesh
What does it mean?
It means I shall see you soon.
-Lady Kasa


The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end.
-Benjamin Disraeli
--->God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so when we meet the right person, we will be grateful.

--> Some say first love is practice for the next, some say first love is true love and those thereafter are just to forget.

True love can never be too strong or too dull; it can only be just right.

True love is when you're still dancing, long after the music has stopped.

--->True love doesn't have a happy ending. True love never ends.
What's love without care?

What's care without loyalty?

What's loyalty without patience?

What's patience without understanding?

What understanding without friendship?

What's friendship without YOU?

How to keep someone?

Try to be perfect, but don't be.

Be considerate, but don't tolerate.

Be good, but not too nice.

Be consistent, not persistent.

and best of all..

Just LOVE, never ask.

Just a thought:

Don't make some a "priority" who makes you an "option".
You don't have to be perfect to let somebody love you the way you wanted to be loved. Always remember that by being simple is the most perfect way to make someone fall in love with you!

In love, we all take risks, we all fall down. But you should never be scared to go a little crazier. 'Coz in the end, the sweetest love is the one that made you lost control.

Do what makes you happy . Life's not based on the money you earn and the success you've achieved. It's all about being happy with who you are, who you're with, who you've got and who you love.

A friend is someone who puts up with your worst moods, laughs at your corniest jokes, goes with your craziest ideas but always sees the best in you!

We spend most of our lifetime looking for someone who can give us the love we deserve, yet from the start, there is someone who is ready to love you for who you are, just by your side. Try not to look far and look to your side.
I can't make someone love me forever. All I can do is be someone who can be loved. And the rest is up to the person to realize my worth.

--> Minsan madali sabihing kaya mo, madali sabihing magmove on, madali sabihing kalimutan.

Pero sa totoo lang, when you come to the point na nagmahal ka ng sobra, lahat ng madali mahirap gawin.

Everything in life is temporary. So if things are going good, enjoy it 'coz it won't last forever. And if things are going bad, don't worry 'coz it won't last forever either.

--> Tao ka lang na pwedeng magmahal. Tao ka lang na pwedeng masaktan. Tao lang tayo na marunong magmahal at masaktan, pero wag niya idadahilang tao lang siya na pwede kang saktan at paglaruan.

Change is the only permanent thing in this world and with everybody that passes, we don't notice just how much it affects until... one day... the people who know you best say "hindi na siya ung nakilala ko..."
Love Quote: "Love yourself, for if you don't, how can you expect anybody else to love you?" It is only through loving ourselves that we learn how to love others.
Happiness is somewhere between too little and too much.

May you have just..

..enough wealth to meet your needs.

..enough poverty to learn how to work hard.

..enough blessings to know that God loves you.

.. enough problems so you don't forget Him.

..enough happiness to keep you sweet.

..enough trials to keep you strong.

..enough hope to keep you happy.

..enough sorrow to keep you human.

A fact to remember:

Everyone's going to hurt you sooner or later. It's just up to you to decide who's worth the pain.
Friendship knows no season, friendship knows no time. It has a sole intention of bringing people to a time called forever.

The test of friendship doesn't come when you're together. It comes when you part ways and you realize that despite the distance, the friendship is still there.

A true friend understands when you sa 'I forgot', waits forever when you say 'just a minute', stays with you when you say 'leave me alone', opens his heart before you knock.

The greatest challenge of being a friend, is not just listening when words are spoken; it is hearing and feeling even when there is nothing but silence.

In life, it doesn't matter who you are but whether someone appreciates you for what you are. A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

I Love You

I love you,
Not only for what you are
But for what I am
When I am with you.
I love you
Not only for what
You have made of yourself
But for what
You are making of me.
I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out;
I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped-up heart
And passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can't help
Dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out
Into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.
I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple;
Out of works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song.
I love you
Because you have done
More than any creed
Could have done
To make me good,
And more than any fate
Could have done
To make me happy.
You have done it
Without a touch,
Without a word,
Without a sign.
You have done it
By being yourself.
Perhaps that is what
Being a friend means,
After all.
- Roy Croft

Pasaway na song lyrics:

"i decided long ago, never to walk with Edu Manzano.."

"so kiss me and smaffle me.."

"it started when we were younger you were nine.."

"some people want tambourines but i don't.."

"my only nest is killing me.."

"don't go jason waterfalls.."

"Constantine, you're on my mind.."

"soul of Christ, sat beside me.."

and finally,

"nothing's gonna change my love for you, you know naman my love how much i love you.."

Something to ponder on:

"Anyone can make you smile or cry, but it takes someone really special to make you smile when you already have tears in your eyes."
Whichever way you look at it, in order to succeed, another must fail.

You excercise your right of choice every time you choose not to decide.

Love has the power to bring out the absolute best -and worst -in all of us.

It takes a hell of a lot of knowledge to really know how little you know.

--> If you start something - finish it.

Always admit it when you're wrong.

Embrace change - don't run from it.

It's not over until it's over.

--> If you jump to conclusions, you are likely to hurt yourself in the fall.

--> Never make a promise unless you mean to stick by it.

When people say they hate you for what you are, tell them that it feels better than being loved for what you are not.

--> No totally honest person can say that they were always happy. Life is made up of happy and sad moments, one cannot exist without the other, just as there cannot be light without dark.

A mistake is not the same as an error. We can make a mistake and correct it but it would ba an error to knowingly make a mistake and do nothing.
A lot of us have built dreams with people

we hoped would be with us forever,

only to wake up in the world of reality

that nothing's permanent in this world.

Love comes and goes.

People stay and leave.

Life is a cycle

of finding and losing,

of making and breaking,

of living and dying.

That's how....

Reality Bites!

Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change. Play hard, forgive quickly, take chances, give all, and have no regrets. Life's too short to be anything but happy.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage. [Lao-Tzu]

What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose. In love, goodbyes are never final, and doors that are shut never remain forever closed.

Let no one who loves be called altogether unhappy. Even love unreturned has its rainbow.

When falling in love with friends, you must believe your friendship is so strong, that not even love can get in the way.

If you love someone, you have to give the best. Do the right thing but the best way to an everlasting relationship comes from three words: 'Do Not Lie.'

A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears.

Love comes to those who still hope eventhough they've been disappointed, to those who believe eventhough they've been betrayed.

This is the great irony of love; it is only when you learn to give yourself that you discover who you really are.

We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end. [Benjamin Disrael]

Remember that there will always be one true love for you to have and hold. It might not be the one you expect but it's the one you deserve.

You can hide the pain that you feel and make others believe that you can move on, but you can never deny the truth to yourself.

If you never had a broken heart, you have not yet experienced true love.

A woman can forgive a man for the harm he does her but she can never forgive him for the sacrifices he makes on her account.

If you have the courage to love, you have the courage to suffer.

--> If you don't love too much, you don't love enough.

Bakit kaya pagdating sa love, ung kabaligtaran mo ang napupunta sayo?

Bakit ung matino, napupunta sa bad?

Bakit ung palaging bigo, napupunta sa naglalaro?

Bakit ung mabait, napupunta sa pasaway?

Alam mo kasi, pag binigay sayo ang katulad mo, hindi ka matututo na magbago para sa isang tao..

Hindi mo malalaman ang mali sayo..

At pag walang nagbago sayo, hindi mo malalaman kung nagmamahal ka nga ng totoo..

it's my way of life

Dance as though no one is watching you.

Love as though you have never been hurt before.

Sing as though no one can hear you.

Live as though heaven is on earth.

What is first love worth, except to prepare for a second? What does second love bring? Only regret for the first. Some people are never satisfied with what they have. They go on an endless journey to find something better. In the end, all that they find is regret.
It's not certain whether the one you have now is the one you'll be with for the rest of your life. There's even no guarantee if the one you just is the one who will love you forever. Because there's no such thing as the ideal man or woman, no such thing as the right person or the right one. It is us who can make love to last a lifetime. So if ever somebody asked you: "IS HE/SHE THE RIGHT ONE?" You can answer: "I'M NOT SURE, BUT I INTEND TO MAKE HIM/HER MY ONLY ONE."

I Love Him

I love him,
I dream of him,
I sing of him by day;
And all the night I hear him talk,
-- And yet he's far away.
There's beauty in the morning,
There's sweetness in the May,
There's music in the running stream;
And yet he's far away.
I love him,
I trust in him;
He trustesth me always:
And so the time flies hopefully,
Although he's far away.
-Barry Cornwall

think about it.

You know the difference between somebody you LOVE & somebody you LIKE?

Read this message & think about it.

- if you look into the eyes of the one you LIKE, you blush; but if you look into the eyes of the one you LOVE, you smile .

- in front of the person you LIKE, you tend to get shy; but in front of the person you LOVE, you can show your own self.

- you cannot look straight into the eyes of the one you LIKE; but you can always smile into the eyes of the one you LOVE.

- when the one you LOVE is crying, you cry with them; but when the one you LIKE is crying, you end up comforting.


1. Birds of the same feather are the same birds.
2. Do not do unto others what you can't do.
3. An apple a day is not an apple at night.
4. When the cat is away, the mouse is alone.
5. If others can do it, don't help.
6. Tell me who your friends are and i'll tell you mine.
7. Early to bed and early to rise makes you sleepy in the afternoon.
8. Ang ilog na tahimik ay malalim; ang ilog na maingay, may naglalaba.


10 maghintay ng taong nakatadhana sa sa'yo
9 magpakatanga sa taong walang kwenta
8 pakawalan ang taong nagmamahal sa'yo ng sobra
7 magkagusto sa taong 'di para sa'yo
6 palagpasin ang mga pagkakataon para maging masaya
5 magpanggap na 'di mo siya mahal kahit nasasaktan ka
4 magmahal kahit walang kapalit
3 maging tulay ng taong mahal mo sa taong mahal niya
2 pakawalan ang taong sobra mong mahal
1 ipagpilitan ang sarili sa taong 'di ka kayang mahalin

What is LOVE?

If it's because of his/her EYES or his/her LIPS or his/her GREAT BODY, it's not love. It's LUST.

If it's because of his/her INTELLIGENCE or INSIGHT ABOUT LIFE, it's not love. It's ADMIRATION.

If it's because you CRY EVERYTIME YOU TRY TO LEAVE HIM/HER, it's not love. It's PITY.

If it's because he/she GIVES YOU PIMPLES & SLEEPLESS NIGHTS, it's not love. It's INFATUATION.

Love is when you do not know why you seem to be attracted to a person.

Love has its reason...

and that reason is UNKNOWN.

fools rush in

"Never rush in falling in love, for love never runs out. Let love be the one to knock at your door." We are often pressured by society to find a loved one. Yet it is sometimes in the waiting that we find someone whom we can truly love.


1. falling in love
2. laughing so hard, your face hurts
3. bubble bath
4. a good conversation
5. sweet dreams
6. the beach
7. getting butterflies in your stomach everytime you see that one person
8. hugging the one you love
9. midnight phone calls that last for hours
10. waking up realizing you still have few hours left to sleep
11. friends
12. watching the sunrise
13. laughing at yourself
14. having someone play with your hair
15. getting mails
16. getting out of bed every morning & thanking God for another day

you just do

Don't search for love.

Let love search for you.

That's why it is called...


You don't actually force yourself to LOVE.

You just...


Letting Go

To let go doesn't mean to stop caring, it means i can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization that I don't control another.
To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another, I can only change myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.
To let go is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes and to cherish the moment.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more.

Saturday, June 03, 2006

In life, you're given certain chances

and with every given chances,

you have to make choices.

Choices that may change your life,

if given a chance,

would you rather

be happy and wrong?

Or be right but sad?